Why Does This Always Happen To Me?

This is a question that many of us have asked ourselves throughout our journey in life, especially in the moments when we are hurting the most...that is hurting the most AGAIN! 

If you're finding that you are asking yourself "Why does this always happen to me?" once again, then it is a good idea to take the question seriously and start listening and watching for the answer, because it will come to you if you are willing to pay it the attention it deserves.

As an intuitive psychic, empath, and tarot reader I understandably hear these kinds of questions a lot. Why me? Why now? Why AGAIN!?!? 

It's important to remind ourselves in these moments of wondering that life is not punishing you...it is simply trying to wake you up to a pattern that you are participating in and may continue to play out until you learn the lessons it is trying to teach you. Waking up to a pattern can feel uncomfortable and disorienting, but once you see and understand the pattern you instantly have the opportunity to go from sad and angry victim to wise and empowered creator. When you know what your pattern is you have the power to choose differently and begin having better experiences in your life.

Two common patterns that I see repeat in people's lives is infidelity and mean bosses. I'm sure many of you reading can relate...You meet the most awesome and funny guy or gal in the whole world, you get close, you fall in love and BAM he or she cheats on you with another person...or you leave your old job because your boss was such a major B#%CH who seemed to get off on regularly humiliating you, only to find your new boss makes the old wicked witch boss look like a beloved camp counselor! And the saddest, most frustrating, part of all is that in both cases...this isn't even the first time that this has happened to you!

More often than not, these and other patterns are the result of your unconscious mind guiding you to experiences that will wake you up to what relationship dynamics were present in your own family and household growing up. Many people who cheat and are cheated on in relationships had parents that cheated and lied or were cheated on and lied to in their relationships and that dynamic created an impact and has left an imprint on the person experiencing that in their life now. Or sometimes it is a pattern that originates from having to compete with siblings to get love and approval from the adults in a person's life. Many people who experience their bosses as being overly critical and hateful towards them had at least one controlling or manipulative parent growing up.

As much as we all like the idea of "letting the past be the past", it will often times follow us around until we finally decide to face it and deal with who and what hurt us growing up. On a spiritual and psychological level, that is what the cheating boyfriends and the mean boss' of the world are trying to make you aware of...that you still have unresolved hurts and they need your help in being healed.  When we take the time to consciously grieve and release the hurts from the past we free ourselves from the soul karma of having to become conscious of the original pain and experiences that may have left us feeling less whole and complete in this life.  As human beings our bodies, hearts, and minds are designed to heal...so doing conscious healing work has a pay off...freedom from the same old pain we've been encountering over and over again!  Releasing the hurt from the past creates space for new joy, new lessons and new types of people to enter our life.

Healing and understanding these kinds of past hurts and patterns will be a big part of what I explore in my blog, so if you are interested in learning more, be sure to subscribe to my RSS feed so you can be kept up-to-date

Be kind to yourself and thank you for reading :-)
Amanda

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